in every group of friends, cliques, gengs, or watever u want to call it, there will tend to be a certain defacto leader of the group. one who will deny they are on top of everyone, but in reality their actions and words used are obviously putting themselves above everyone else.
another factor that qualifies them as the de facto leader is when almost everyone else in the geng puts that person/s as above their own selves. when the de facto leader says "yes", the rest will say "yes". when he says "no", the rest will say "no". but when one in the geng who wants to say/think otherwise, he will either be badly ridiculed by the rest, or ignored like he's a piece of trash, especially by the de facto leader. and when it hits the de facto leader personally, the rest will jump to their rescue as if the de facto leader is some kind of god.
makes u wonder what did this person do to give them the immunity.
i'm not a philosopher, i'm not an expert. i love to stereotype. but why i said what i said in the previous paragraphs, is because it involves me. sure, they won't admit it. they'll pretend to be surprised if told so. but that's the fact. somehow people i've known for years, and i've never felt like i fit in.
i'm not a follower, i've never been one. i like to think on my own. i'm a democracy, not a communist. for years they pull me back in, and for years i only witness how they blindly follow the "de facto leader", not caring for the rest with differing minds. and for years i voluntarily make attempts to disassociate from them, appearing once in a while just to show face for a small moment, just to make them think "yes, he's still one of us, still time to psycho him".
reality hurts for them if they know they are the ones i'm talking about. biasalah melayu pantang ditegur
another factor that qualifies them as the de facto leader is when almost everyone else in the geng puts that person/s as above their own selves. when the de facto leader says "yes", the rest will say "yes". when he says "no", the rest will say "no". but when one in the geng who wants to say/think otherwise, he will either be badly ridiculed by the rest, or ignored like he's a piece of trash, especially by the de facto leader. and when it hits the de facto leader personally, the rest will jump to their rescue as if the de facto leader is some kind of god.
makes u wonder what did this person do to give them the immunity.
i'm not a philosopher, i'm not an expert. i love to stereotype. but why i said what i said in the previous paragraphs, is because it involves me. sure, they won't admit it. they'll pretend to be surprised if told so. but that's the fact. somehow people i've known for years, and i've never felt like i fit in.
i'm not a follower, i've never been one. i like to think on my own. i'm a democracy, not a communist. for years they pull me back in, and for years i only witness how they blindly follow the "de facto leader", not caring for the rest with differing minds. and for years i voluntarily make attempts to disassociate from them, appearing once in a while just to show face for a small moment, just to make them think "yes, he's still one of us, still time to psycho him".
reality hurts for them if they know they are the ones i'm talking about. biasalah melayu pantang ditegur
